Maggy & George part 4 (together)

“ She opened her mouth, said hello and bang…the lady could not stop her venom coming out of her mouth. She went on like a solider in the army accusing me of the problems at work being my fault for all my previous incompetence and decisions I had taken” I am shocked, damn, NOOOOOOO, there goes my first kiss opportunity and my fantasies down the drain.

I sit back and relax again on the chair. Oh well…hmmm….Maggy takes over after seeing my disappointment.

She says gleefully, “there is a lot more to come honey, just be patient. “ she bends forward towards me, puts her arms on the table separating us and leans her elegant face on her hands and whispers “I felt the exact same way” louder now and with a smile she sits back “ I walked in expecting to see something totally different than what I saw. I saw a tall man, with the perfect body frame and the straightest posture I have ever seen on a man. Dark black hair slicked back, wide Dark eyes with a suit that would be a shame for any other man to wear” she looks up dreamily to show me just how perfect he looked, as for me, I had no doubt that this 75 year old man was that handsome. George still had an extremely straight posture, still dressed beautifully and his hair was still slicked back (all white now). He didn’t look 75 at all and I can only imagine what a hunk he must have been in his early forties. Just for your knowledge they are 14 years age difference between them.

Maggy tells me how she nearly fainted with heart palpitations when she first laid eyes on him. But all she could think of was what a womanizing pig he was, how his reputation was the worst and the harshest. She contained herself by attacking him at first sight, allowing his true nature to come out, for reasons she held deep inside. Maggy too lost interest the minute he argued back, all calmly, standing up from his seat to provide her with a dominating stand since he was taller than her.

It was that day, that very day in which they would have to meet every few weeks to discuss work matters and would be on the phone in one another’s way, disturbing the peace. This went on for more than half a year, the same attitude the same dislike of one another, the same arguments. Until one day, as Maggy was busying herself with her books at night trying to find ways to upgrade her knowledge, she received a phone call. A friend through a work friend called to ask if she was interested to attend a book club. A book club about human psychology and the other realm the super natural powers of humans. She jumped on the opportunity and went.

She walked into a large meeting room, with over 9 people in it, she had no idea so many people were interested in what she had been interested in for years. She was welcomed by all, and asked to sit down between a man and a woman. They spoke to her and enjoyed their conversation, until the door opened, and there came in the person who would be leading this group, the one at the head of the table. George walked in, all smiles and confidence, saying his hellos to everyone when his eyes came across Maggy, and he froze. What the hell is she doing here he thought, as were her thoughts too. As she was about to get up, she realized that he was the leader of this book club, she sat down to hear what was to be said. Naturally she was the only one fighting him throughout the whole meeting, arguing her point, making her point. She challenged him and he liked that, he didn’t feel that anyone else ever could, but she was smart and knew her stuff and didn’t just contend with what was given to her. They became friends after a few of those meetings and she started to sit on his right side on the meeting table. They would meet for coffee and discuss all issues of the upcoming meeting. They went and met people that had telepathic abilities, people that knew the ropes of mind manipulation, others who had insights to unforeseen events. From work life, to their own world they grew together and their group grew. With all this, they had disclosed their personal life to one another.

As it was, George was married before and had 2 kids, he was greatly hurt by his ex wife who cheated on him, and vowed never to love or marry again. As for Maggy she was never able to find a man who matched her equally and vowed never to marry and become a mans slave. They stayed friends, growing together working together.

‘ Three years later he asked to see me. I was worried that there was something wrong in the company. “ she added “I was worried that we might have been behind on something at work, and so I started preparing all the papers that had to be done” she goes quiet for a split second “ He came in and told me that he had feeling for me, he liked me”

“yes….hahah….” he confirms looking at her with eyes of a person who floated back in time.

“I asked him, so what do you want me to do about that?”

“Nothing, just know that I do and that is all I want, I just wanted you to know that”

I was completely and utterly over men, I was sick of them, and not ready to deal with anyone, you can imagine how that felt, she told me in a questioning manner.  He looks at me and also mentions how he was sick of women too and had no desire to be with anyone any more. “but there was something about her, I just couldn’t stop thinking about her, and all I wanted to do was tell her how I felt, it didn’t really matter what she did about it”

She takes a deep look at me and relays that “I never thought of him that way, he wasn’t my type, or my style of a man, and so I made nothing of what he said, we continued working together.” She was interested in fun guys, ones that let their hair down, blonds.

As the months passed, I started to look at him differently, it’s as though his confession about his feelings gave new meaning to who he truly is.

Then one day, three months later, we go out for coffee and I look at him, knowing that I want him in my life. “I knew what she was about to say” he explains “I knew that I didn’t have to say much for him to know what I wanted to say”. Yes, was all I said, and it was at that very moment we started dating. “The thing is, I was so busy changing myself and doing so much self development, that was all that really mattered.  I kept attracting the wrong type of men into my life and so that was something that I just could not deal with anymore. I was upset from all the disappointments in my life” Maggy says to me in a very stern manner.

“That was one of the best decisions I had ever taken in my life” Maggy says. “He is my partner, my other half, the one person who gets me and lets me be me” she fondles with her fingers as she says that, and he turns around and says “there was no one else I would have ever committed to in my life other than Maggy, she fit me so well, we never argued, we had no time to argue, we were so busy having fun together”.

I kept staring at them…..waw..they are soul mates, and I can’t believe it’s this obvious and so clear. I had to ask, I had to know, they were both against marriage, so why did they do it, they could have just lived together.

George moves around in his chair, and bluntly says “ I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, I wanted to have that bond, for her to be mine and I knew better than to propose to her, she would have shot me down” she smiles, nods her head in agreement.

George said that he had to think of a way to make her say yes, but use logic to do it. He sat up nights thinking of how to do it, then one day over a dinner date, he told her that they need to get married for paper work reasons. He wanted to make sure that if anything ever happened to him that he has all works to prove that she is also part of his heritage with his kids. He said that there would be a lot of benefits from the government for them, that they could make a business together. She argued so much with him, not understanding the point of it, then she told him yes, she would also like to spend the rest of her life with him.

They agreed not to have children, they agreed to maintain their relationship as it is, they agreed to love one another regardless. I asked her how they maintained 27 years of a great relationship. She told me their secret was “We never expected anything from the other person. What is given to one another was always enough”

A few weeks after they got married, Maggy wanted to know if there was anything that she was doing that was getting under his skin, they made sure to be very honest for no build up towards one another. The only thing he told her was “ you are beautiful in all ways, and there is nothing you do that gets on my nerves, the only thing I wish you could do, is when you cut the bread, angle the knife a bit to the right, for that angled desire for a slice of bread” She stared at me, laughing, can you believe that was all he had to say, from that day till this very day, I have never heard anything but love and praise. When he asked me, I told him nothing at all, I could not be happier in my life.

Maggy and George, gave me a new understanding to relationships, it was not making things work out and working so hard to find a middle ground, it was finding your perfect fit. That is all it realy is, someone you enjoy spending time with, someone you actually have things in common, same values and wants in life…same goals. I saw them several times after that, and went over to thier quaint home to learn a bit about carl jung. I learnt a lot those days, found out that they held seminars to help people develope themeselves the best hey can. They were a great couple, it has been 4 years since i last spoke to them. Maybe when i go down to Montreal i will give them a call.

About Rana Zaben
I help people feel their best and create a solid second income to enjoy the best things in life.

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